Sometimes it takes us awhile to figure it out. Sometimes we blame others for our "situations." Sometimes we tell everyone the same sucky story over and over not realizing that we are speaking it into existence. .
Once you become accountable for your feelings and your life then you are able to change it.
Often it takes us multiple "coincidences" in order for us to question the life we are living.
For me it was my relationships. I would swing back and forth from one type of extreme to the other. "How do I keep going from one relationship to the other always getting the same results. I see other people who are happy, and able to be with the same person. The common denominator is... ME" I had old belief patterns that in the past made me feel safe about love in order for me "survive" as a child. Those beliefs were no longer helping me, but hurting me when it came to my personal relationships.
I had to unlearn what I thought I knew in order to break the pattern. It's not an easy task. Certain things still swing me into anxiety. My subconscious mind grasping at the old beliefs in order to feel comfort and safety. But my conscious mind is aware now & can overcome those thoughts and knows what COULD BE. And that is worth it. I'm rewiring my mind and teaching myself a new belief about love.
After 31 years of believing it one way, I know that it will take some time. Healing doesnt happen over night.
So if you are on this journey too. Know that it takes time. Imagine what the world could be like if everyone knew this. 💜💜