To the one who's afraid of relationships,
Trust, love, heartbreak - these are the three words which are the definition of a relationship to you. Aren't they? Attachment seems to be your biggest foe and love doesn't seem to be your cup of tea anymore.
Well, people say expectations hurt but do unexpected things greet us with happiness always? Love is divine, sublime and the most blissful feeling on this earth yet why does a heartbreak hurt more than any physical injury?
I know your insecurities, your fears, your needs and your helplessness.
Every human wants to love and expects a mandatory reciprocation along with it.
But is this a barter system?
Or are we trying to seek trade and business through emotions?
I know you've been broken , you've lost your trust from love, you've started knowing the cruelity of this world and have tried detaching yourself from people around. You've tried building a cage, locked your heart and have thrown the keys afar with hopelessness , unworthy tears and innumerous "WHY's". You fear love but at the same time you want someone to be there for you, who'd hold your hand and walk till forever, you want someone who'd love passionately the same way you used to do and will address you as the most precious possession of his life. But, good things take time, good choices need worthy decisions and passionate goals seek wise analysis. Just because you had a deadly past doesn't mean you'll never be able to get love again or be able to trust.
Surrounding yourself with walls of shattered dreams, broken promises and trust issues will only let you down hereby increasing your insecurities. Make sure that this time before loving someone else you love yourself, make sure that no one can possess the power to break you amidst the cracks of betrayals or can behold control over your happiness.
Take your time to fall in love with yourself, adore your flaws and imperfections , live your dreams and then hunt for your man of dreams. There's someone who's eagerly waiting to spend his entire life "JUST WITH YOU". -
Another victim of the same trap.