I watched a video recently of a man explaining how and why he thinks he cheated on his wife. The marriage was barely a year old. So...... Then the story of the husband who none of his three kids were really his. Or the wife that stabbed her husband to death, in his sleep!
You know, most times when we see people misbehave or display foolishness in relationships, we are quick to respond like; 'How could he do such a thing! I mean, who does that!
'This man is so heartless'
'This woman is mean'
Truth is, we all have stuff we battle with in life.
We all have our demons that we have to fight in our lives and relationships, and the earlier you begin to face the truth about your demons and deal with them now, the better it is for you, and your relationship, and the society at large.
Nobody plans out to have a failed relationship/marriage from the start, but somehow, there are these crazy, tiny, little 'devils' that just rear their ugly heads every time and sabotage all your efforts or ruin the beautiful thing you have going on.
Those are the demons I'm talking about. They have decided that you will not be great.
Just respect yourself now, now that they have not disgraced you yet, because they will eventually and it will be loud. Just make the right choice to do something about them ASAP.
Its better to be a work in progress, than to not progress at all.
Deal with your demons now or they'll come show their true self later.