'Ladka ladki kabhi Dost nahi hoskty' Must have heard this is a 100 times from movies, khawateen digest, amma and aunties. I grew up listening this apparently 'universal phenomena'.If you spend much time with the opposite gender you're bound to develop 'feelings' LOL LOL
There are certain rules defined by ISLAM and they have some reasons behind. If we are violating them we shouldn't defend that as well.
I have found some of the nicest friendship with boys. I was lucky to run into some great guys in university with whom i developed a life long friendship(who will probably gonna dance in my wedding lol). They are like family now. It's just like hanging out with any other loud mouth, fun loving, easy going person (irrespective of the gender). Most importantly, i have an amazing time with them.
The BRO LIFE is a GOOD LIFE!
Kudos to the guys who can look beyond 'Yh to ek LARKI hai' and accept a girl into their circle without making her feel uncomfortable and without any twisted intentions. I know not all the guys have such a mindset but i also know that the ones who do, are completely worth it.
Sometimes i wonder how many good people and good time i would have let gone off if i only limited myself to the girls circle.
And these two boys in the picture are the perfect example of friendship and my family treats them like a family LOL the right one's know as "Masoom"(jo k hai nahi) in my family while the left one's know as "The naughtiest" (and he is btw🙄)