There are phases in life,you are kid,you grow up ,you get married,have children,get old and die. Marriage is one of the decisions upon which rest of your life depends. I’m just writing down what I found un-just being a girl and an human being when I see people of my age getting compromise their dreams,their likes/dislikes for their lives on the name of marriage.
I don’t know how has it been decided for boys but as far as girls are concerned ,it feels parents who love you all your life suddenly show you why have they been bringing you up when they give preference to their own interests while choosing partners for you.I see parents deciding it as if it is some pair of shoe. Or it is about choosing a dish at dinner, completely ignoring the fact that this is a decision for life time and your generations will pay off.
I know a girl whose brothers tied her knot to a comparatively low profile boy so that she could never become strong enough to demand the land they have.I see girls and boys getting married to educationally incompatible people because of some compulsions by family.I know a few who get through traumatic situations of being rejected again & again.I know many,who have not even been asked if they agree or not?Still girls menage,they menage to love,menage to compromise and menage to handle house hold and menage to never look back but after a few happy months they started getting bullied by their life partners. Wives are not for making fun . Specially when they have been insulted and ignored personally too. They are not your servants ,they are your partners even if you feel they are not intellectually capable then too there is no harm in answering if she asks something. Why answering a question is so annoying or hard for them?This way,You will end up having children who will clue less about things like courtesy,empathy and ethics and there is no doubt that one day you will find them sharing a meme on yourself.
Moreover,if you feel ,you are fulfilling a relation which you did not want then she too did not come with her wish ,she too had dreams but if she could learn to love and respect you ,why not you? #women #woman #girls #girl #marriage #bullying