We may find distant or avoidant partners #alluring
because their avoidance is a challenge for our ego …
Prove we’re lovable or #worthy
. That we are so special that we can change someone’s mind or behavior.
But that excitement you feel is also #draining
and soul-sucking on so many levels.
When we #abandon
ourselves for someone who’s undeserving of our energy, our inner-child is is usually hurting deeply and feeling afraid to be alone.
It's ok to walk away when your heart isn’t being #cherished
, honored or supported.
at the end of the day, we all deserve to be with someone who we know is in our corner.
Someone who loves us on the hard days and treats the relationship as sacred.
Any time we waste chasing someone to give us #love
, there’s an unmet internal need for love and nurturance toward our inner-child.
You don’t need someone else to reflect back your wounds without being willing to heal with you.
You don’t need someone to trigger all of your insecurities by treating you like an after-thought or avoiding intimacy.
It might #feel #unnatural
to let go of this type of connection because you’re breaking a very old pattern …
Don’t worry, this doesn’t make you “crazy”, it means you really want to heal.
When you discover your unique #Relationship
Signature. You can…
Free yourself from neediness and looking to a partner to make you feel whole.
Stop being “too nice”.. Hold kind boundaries while being your most loving, attractive, & #phenomenal
Be with someone who truly loves & #respects
you. (Transform your current relationship, or discover the new love of your life.) Once you understand how YOU relate to others in love, you’ll be able to create the beautiful romantic life you deserve.